Romantic guy
Friend, do you feel as a romantic guy? Or want to learn to be romantic?
Friend, do you feel as a romantic guy? Or want to learn to be romantic?
Along with the rise of romantic movies and songs by country musicians, the more the men who were inspired to learn to be a Man Romance.
Even this trend expanding indiscriminately, narrow understanding of the men about starting a relationship with a woman. Give them the illusion that by being romantic it will create a shortcut to a success in life romance.
Special thanks to the medias! Thanks to the media, which has always symbolized romance with roses, poetry and songs, diamond rings, and beautiful words alone, the men became increasingly distant from the romance of a healthy life and quality.
Some men spend a lot of money to buy flowers and a ring for the woman they love ..
Some men racked their brains just to compose beautiful poems to a woman they like ..
Some men throw their precious time to wait years to prove the sincerity of the women they love ..
And of course, some men were killed physically or mentally, to know all of that was a total failure ..
Coupled with other typical cases. Cultural romance has been eating so many male victims.
So what makes a mistake committed by the romance of modern man is a total failure?Even tend to end up with a shout, “Ah crap really !” Of a woman. Whereas male characters in the film, these tips magazine, and the lyrics of the song managed to get the women they want. Points, what is missing from your thoughts?
Well, most men do not understand well and not give a damn about the real meaning of ‘romantic’ itself. And already the law if we do not understand the true meaning of something, we also do not know the mechanism and how to do it right.
And even if you master something without fully understanding (self-taught), the knowledge you also still be easily collapsed, lost, and even stuck! Because you are not based on solid foundations. You do not know what and why you are wrong ..
As a student of literature, I studied academically romance. And I really wanted to straighten out your views on the meaning of ‘romance’, as well as providing a solution according to what I have learned.
I promised not to lecture you with the history and philosophy of romanticism, but I’ll give a simple general definition of romance that it is proper to know.
Romanticism itself is a way or tips for someone to express their feelings of attraction and admiration (love) on the opposite sex who enthuses. The Europeans are the pioneers of medieval romance .. in ancient times, they show an interest with flowers, poems, sweet words, even the sacrifice of lives.
Until finally, how this has become a trend and culture in the world to express love sleuruh ..until now!
But modernization has drastically changed the face of romance, my friend. When the action was so easy to get romantic with ‘price’ is no longer cheap and artsy, the old-fashioned romance is required to conform to modern culture.
This causes the romance is divided into two opposing camps, namely: (1) the action of a modern romantic who has managed to adapt with the times, and still bears the name of ‘ROMANTIC’. And (2) the action of ancient romance, which still relies on the ways that tend to succeed in ancient times, and finally end up with the name ‘cheesy’ or ‘SOK ROMANTIC’.
Think about it carefully. Today, automatic ROMANTIC cap attached to the disclosure of the favorable action which is considered sincere, creative, and make it ‘attractive’ target heart.Such as hot chocolate and melt it feels so lull. In contrast, Cap rag will adhere to a number of actions that failed to ‘charming’ hearts, be sincere and not a mere seduction. Action that looks Trying too hard to get attention from its target.
Strange is not it? A thing is distinguished from the genuine and whether or not.
In other words, as long as you and thousands of other men will think that you managed to get a woman when you do romantic acts by SINCERELY! Though obviously a sincerity no exact measure. Who knows if you are sincere or not?
Psycho-cultural differentiation is very interesting and confusing at the same time. So that people do tend to get lost. It is a division of a very thin, invisible, but the results are very much different.
You love a woman, you deal with it, and you feel you want to show my love to him. Do not know what to do to attract him, then you can only use methods that work in film or creative ideas to your best friend (who actually also singles all).
You think it’s a way to do. It’s impossible not touched a woman. So you prove your true love through the gifts that cute stuffed Teddy Bear put a necklace around her neck a ring that you gave the right at 12 am on her birthday.
The woman just looked at you with astonishment. Then smile and thank menucapkan. He received your gift, and immediately you say, “I love you .. I may not be your guy? ”
The woman then think hard, putting all his strength and unpleasant feeling to say, “Oh thank bangeet! I do not have thought .. Sorry but yes, I can not .. I was more comfortable to be friend wrote, you’re too good for me .. ”
The sentence above can I translasikan to Indonesian to be, “Najong .. Animashaun! Siih very cheesy! But it’s also nice doll at the ring .. but how well? I’m interested in the same lu ga .. ”
Or you’re recording a bunch of songs that symbolize your feelings on the woman in a CD, give it a sense of anticipation-anxiety. Your genuine sincerity. In the CD cover you even knit poem:
He was the person who has made falling-up.
He was the one who made my life sweeter.
He was the idol of my heart, longing for it.
He is the end of my longing
He is .. You ..
He was the one who made my life sweeter.
He was the idol of my heart, longing for it.
He is the end of my longing
He is .. You ..
Above poem is a poem Tertullus ever, but instead got a rag cap and the woman becomes heavy Ilfeel.
And you are sincere! Why would you even fail?
If you often fail to take action to romance, I would not blame you. But I also will not let you fall further. This is simply due to misunderstanding about the romance that you always force you to continue to rely on old ways obsolete.
You can still bounce back!
Well, how to be a true Romantic man that would not be labeled as a rag man Sok Romantic?
Friend, many men mistakenly think that the name and romantic it is a matter of seducing sweet words full of praise and give a special gift. Though it’s not that at all!
Romantic man and really rely TIMING OF ATTITUDE!
TIMING mean you have to know the right time to launch a romantic action. You can not just play the beat. When you do so at the wrong time, then surely you will fail.
When you were little and wanted to ask buy toys, then you wait for the right time to persuade your parents, right? If you want to ask for a raise, then you will certainly take into account when the right time to talk with your boss, right? If you are broke and want to borrow money on your closest friends, though, you definitely notice the right time to talk to him, is not it?
To be effective, there is a good time to do everything.
You actually already know. But why when dealing with a woman, you always play the beat, spontaneous, and does not account for anything? You with the blind hope that only the capital of sincerity and affection, you’ll get him.
So, when the right time to launch an action romantic?
When she’s interested in you!
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