How to Overcome Shyness, Do You Actually Fear of Success?
Are you too shy to get a girl? You fancy someone from afar for a long time (longer than you can remember), but you can not muster the courage to approach her and ask her out? Perhaps you are wondering how to overcome shyness?
Shame is a state of mind. It sounds obvious, but if you are a person who is naturally shy, you really believe that all the people watching you, waiting to see what you did, waiting for you slip up so they can point and laugh at you. This is, of course, because people do not have enough activity in their own lives and were there to keep you watching and waiting for you to make mistakes.
Are you too shy to get a girl? You fancy someone from afar for a long time (longer than you can remember), but you can not muster the courage to approach her and ask her out? Perhaps you are wondering how to overcome shyness?
Shame is a state of mind. It sounds obvious, but if you are a person who is naturally shy, you really believe that all the people watching you, waiting to see what you did, waiting for you slip up so they can point and laugh at you. This is, of course, because people do not have enough activity in their own lives and were there to keep you watching and waiting for you to make mistakes.
Would not you say?It’s easy to mock the above statement if you are not a shy person. However, for those who suffer from shyness, it is a very real problem. Especially for men when it comes to dating, or rather even before a date, and get the courage to even ask someone out on a date!There are two kinds of people shy. They are afraid of rejection – perhaps the most common type – but also those who are afraid of success. There are some people who had problems to overcome their shyness to ask her out because they were really afraid she will say “yes”. Sounds crazy, right?
Think about it, and it makes sense. You have to dream and fantasize about a certain girl for a few weeks or months. You have asked her out on the imaginary, and at the end of each date, you are an imaginary cup of coffee in her apartment. Your perfect stud, and she (naturally) is absolutely perfect in every way.
In fact, you can not overcome your shyness to ask her out because if she did not accept, then WHAT YOU DO NEXT? Where should you ask? How you act and what you say?
The answer is that before you can start to dating women, you should be comfortable with yourself. It is all about your state of mind. Once you are able to overcome it, then you will be unstoppable!
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